I love Christmas music. The day after Thanksgiving, I am ready to decorate a tree with lights and tinsel. I even love wrapping presents! But when it comes to worship, I need Advent. I need one place where the world isn’t buzzing, and instead it’s quiet. I need a place where people look less like perfect Christmas cards and more like Mary and Joseph searching for the inn. I need one place to confront life’s hard realities, like the wise men facing Herod or George Bailey facing suicide before the “everything’s-fine” ending of It’s a Wonderful Life. I need one place where “Hark the Herald Angels Sing” is not co-opted by department store speakers trying to convince me to buy one more thing. Instead, I need a place to pray for Christ to come to a world where there are still the hungry, the poor, and the broken, no matter how many Angel Tree gifts I delivered. I need a sanctuary in which to pray “Come, Thou Long-Expected Jesus,” because I need to acknowledge that we are not there yet, but the promise is to come.
I know I am not the only one who needs this waiting time. Each Christmas, I do more pastoral care than any other time of year. It seems with everything that surrounds us (the lights, the presents, the cards, the movies, the songs) we get to thinking about the places in our lives which don’t match up with the glossy, sparkly, cheery whirlwind. People are nervous about connecting with families marked by addictions, mental illness, abuse, or long-standing hurt. Others go into debt with the expense of Christmas, while TV ads equate love and “being good” with receiving gifts, rather than love and being good being the gifts themselves. The days are short and the nights are long, and it seems to be the time of year when watching the news leaves us with more questions than answers.
Advent is the place to take those questions, not for easy answers but to experience the sure and quiet presence of God.
During Advent, we might think of our sanctuary like an inn that still has space for those who need it the most. During Advent, we welcome those who need somewhere to belong, those who need a place to pray in hope, those who need shelter from the chaos outside. After all, isn’t that most of us? Come to worship this Advent. Come to rest. Come to listen. Come to ponder, and I trust that you will find a Christmas that is more honest but also more hopeful, more generous, and more joyful.
Celebrations
- Christmas decorating, Saturday, Nov. 26, 10 a.m.
- Christmas Eve worship, Saturday, Dec. 24, 7:30 p.m.
- Christmas Day worship, Sunday, Dec. 25, 10 a.m.